FEMININE AND MASCULINE ENERGY COACHING FOR MEN AND WOMEN
Embrace a life of authenticity and unapologetic expression. Together, we’ll overcome whatever is holding you back and discover a more confident, loving, and empowered you.
The Transformation You Deserve
The Key to Feminine Freedom
In a world where you’re taught to hide your femininity and be strong for others, I’m here to help you discover new and deeper sides of yourself and unlock your innate softness, your inner seductress, and your feminine magic.
Unmask Toxic Masculinity
Rid yourself of the false beliefs holding you back and live a life of expression, confidence, and authenticity. This service is for men who want to stop hiding their real emotions and start speaking their truth.
Ongoing Support
Through a combination of private coaching and group work, Elegantly Wild offers men and women the support they need to continue to grow.
Group sessions include empowerment and support workshops for women, full moon sexual energy cleanse ceremonies for men and women, and mixed sharing circles in which I create a safe container to explore how we relate to each other as men and women. By giving you the tools you need and connecting you with others on the path, we’ll celebrate who you are today as we move towards who you’re destined to become.
LADIES, DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
You’ve got a good – dare I say, firm? – grip on most parts of your life.
You are (perhaps single-handedly) raising your children, you have an amazing group of friends (mostly women) that you can talk to about most things, and you excel at your job.
In the eyes of society, you’re thriving.
Your life is ‘in order’.
But something is missing…
The woman in you longs for a healthy, nourishing, and healing intimate relationship.
You may feel unfulfilled and stuck in your current relationship, unheard and unseen; just going through the motions.
You may find yourself dating the same type of man over and over again
Emotionally unavailable men who either avoid or bottle up their feelings. Men who turn away when you touch their woundedness – or worse, explode. Men who, although kind and communicative, can never really seem to get their act together, forcing you to wear the trousers in the relationship. Men who – let’s face it – need a mother more than a lover.
Disheartened, you wonder where all the good men have gone and if maybe you should just settle for less.
You may have even given up on men altogether…
When the stars finally do align and you meet someone you really like, you fall headfirst in love, no safety net in sight. You’re floating on a cloud and feel out of control. Afraid of crashing to the ground, your fears of abandonment begin to creep in. You hold back your truth for fear of losing him.
As time goes by, your confidence begins to crumble.
Where has the powerful and competent woman you once were gone?
Sound familiar?
I’m a certified Integral Relationship Practitioner, group facilitator, and dating coach working with feminine and masculine energies to help you unlock the best version of yourself.
There was a time when I felt trapped by my thoughts and emotions, feeling misunderstood by those around me. I knew I was capable of more but felt unsupported and lost. Like many women, I believed I had to be strong and independent to thrive in a male-dominated world.
I also fell into the trap of thinking men were either emotionally unavailable but exciting or kind but dull. I knew there were some ‘unicorn’ men out there who could fulfil all my needs, but surely, they were all taken already? (And even if they weren’t, that particular demographic was ‘not for women like me…’).
The exciting ones would usually keep me on my toes for a few months, taking up most of my headspace from the moment I woke up until I fell asleep. I spent my days dreaming about a shared future that deep down I knew could never exist. A futile exercise but one that effectively distracted me from my real fear—being alone.
But after a particularly tough breakup a number of years ago, I knew something had to change. I was tired of staying in unfulfilling relationships out of fear of loneliness.
I’d already done a lot of inner work through an exploration of various spiritual practices for over a decade- trauma release, Non-Violent Communication, manifestation, integral relating and more. But it was this deepening understanding of the unique polarities of the (divine) masculine and feminine that gave me a framework within and a lens from which to understand my previous soul work.
Several more years of inner work helped me reconnect with my inner girl and rediscover the woman I always wanted to become—both feminine and wild.
Built on a foundational understanding of masculine-feminine roles and polarities, healthy and vulnerable communication, and sacred sensuality, my current intimate relationship feels grounded, nourishing, full of joy, and mutual respect.
Now, my mission is to help others—women and men alike—find their own balance, unlock their potential, and create fulfilling relationships. If you resonate with my story and need support on your journey, I extend my hand to you.
Will you take it?
A UNIQUE COMMUNITY OF TRANSFORMATION
WHERE YOU ARE NOW:
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Dissatisfied with your intimate relationship or dating life.
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Manifesting the same unhealthy relationship dynamics.
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Lacking purpose and direction.
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Biting off more than you can chew or shying away from responsibility.
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Feeling held back by the past and powerless to move forward.
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Unable to fully feel or express your emotions and needs.
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Too controlling or permissive with the people and relationships in your life.
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Alone and not knowing where to turn.
WHAT YOU WANT:
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A partner who truly understands you and values your unique qualities.
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Transformation of your current relationship into a fulfilling connection in which you both feel seen, supported, and connected.
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A conscious healing journey away from past experiences and relationships.
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A more confident, clearer, and more radiant you.
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A life lived from the heart and your own internal compass – not the voices of the world or from the past.
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The right habits to support your healing and reconnect you with your true potential.
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A support system that allows you to be your most authentic and powerful self.
WHAT I OFFER
COACHING FOR MEN & WOMEN
One-on-one coaching where we explore your current struggles and blockages and find a way through them together. Support in navigating your way through the dating process, your current relationship, or reconnecting with a former partner. A helping hand with friendships, work, or other personal challenges. A safe space for you to bring whatever is alive in you.
EMPOWERMENT AND SUPPORT WORKSHOP (FOR WOMEN)
In this workshop, you’ll learn about some basic concepts and tools related to feminine energy. You’ll learn how to embrace your femininity more fluidly and how to recognise and nurture healthy masculine qualities in men. This workshop is specifically designed for women in their relationships with men. This includes nurturing our own emotions and guiding ourselves through difficult tim.
MIXED SHARING CIRCLES (FOR MEN AND WOMEN)
These monthly mixed spaces are an opportunity to come together with what we’ve learned and practice vulnerability, trust, and collaboration with the opposite sex. We will get to know ourselves and each other a little more each month and support each other in growing together. (Open to both individuals and couples.)